Tying a knot or a bow is often a challenge for preschool children. However, trying out new things strengthens self-confidence and independence. Children are often expected to have these skills by the time they start school. Normally, children develop the dexterity needed to tie a knot and a bow from the age of four. However, some children's fine motor skills are not yet sufficiently developed and they may not be able to tie a knot until later. Parents usually play a key role in teaching their children this skill. Start with a simple knot before teaching your child to tie a bow. It usually proves easier for children to practice tying knots on a stuffed animal or a favorite doll first, rather than on their own clothes or shoes. Use a long ribbon or woolen thread because shorter threads slip out of the hands more easily.
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Show the knot tying
Ask your child if they are familiar with tying a knot. If they don't immediately succeed in tying a knot, show your child the necessary steps. It is easier for children to follow the hand movements if you are sitting next to or behind them. Learning to tie a knot is more difficult when children sit opposite their parents and see your movements mirrored. As soon as your child succeeds in tying the knot, encourage them to try it on their own shoes. Please note that learning to tie a knot is a process that requires patience and might not be achieved on the first day. With repeated practice and your support, your child will soon be able to master this skill. After that, also show your child the individual steps to tie a bow.