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Considering the use of digital media

Digital media is omnipresent in our times. This makes it all the more important to think about how much media use is appropriate for children's everyday lives. Finding a balance in screen time that fosters children's curiosity and supports their natural development is crucial. Active experience and communication play a significant role in childhood. The first years of life are crucial for the development of curiosity, creativity and cognitive and physical skills. Personal experiences in everyday life, such as visiting a playground, playing a game of dice or talking together, promote children's development. The following content will give you ideas for making conscious decisions with regard to children's passive or active experiences.
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Being a role model in our digital age

Adults often unconsciously influence children's behavior and attitudes towards media. It seems contradictory for adults to be constantly online themselves while expecting children to use digital media with restraint. If the TV is on all the time, it becomes difficult for children to develop their own appropriate usage. The best way to foster a healthy relationship with the digital world is through the behavior that adults exemplify. By setting a positive example and promoting a balanced daily routine, you can help children develop a sensible approach to media.

Enabling sensory experiences

Smartphones, tablets, computers and televisions are omnipresent in our everyday lives. Even preschool children spend a lot of time alone in their room in front of a screen instead of gaining sensory experiences, such as creative handicrafts, bird watching during a walk in the park or playing outdoors. This deprives children of important learning experiences that they would normally gain through regular exercise, conversation and play in their immediate environment. This development leads to increasingly recognizable differences in social, cognitive and motor skills as well as vocabulary between peers. Children no longer experience activities such as riding scooters or stroking animals themselves, but only observe them passively on screens. Screen time is no substitute for real experiences, active language exchange, movement and hands-on activities. Motor development and speaking skills require regular physical activity and active communication. Daily conversations with parents are particularly important because they expand children's vocabulary and thus improve their comprehension of texts at school later on. Agreed times and rules for media content as well as regular joint activities such as kneading dough or playing ball enrich children's motor skills and their emotional bond with each other. Such shared moments create opportunities to experience the joy of being active. They also help children to listen and communicate better. By modeling a balance between screen time and other activities, parents promote a healthy lifestyle that positively influences their children's well-being and development.
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Play as a valuable learning process

Digital media are no substitute for the direct experiences that children can gain through free play in a relaxed atmosphere. While playing, they experience joy, disappointment, and frustration, and learn how to manage these emotions. Therefore, view play as a valuable learning process and encourage your child's natural curiosity with age-appropriate toys and creative materials.
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When playing, children embark on a great journey of discovery where they learn and understand as well as live out their imagination.

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Playing is education

For children, playing is much more than just a pastime. Through activities such as free play, role-playing, building games, board games, or movement games, children develop a variety of skills they will need throughout their lives. They learn to use their imagination and creativity to assume roles like that of a pilot or to reenact situations like a horse riding tournament. Building towers or crafting enhances children's fine motor skills, while climbing or sliding on the playground develops their gross motor skills. Playing teaches children to make decisions, cope with frustration, and express their emotions. It also helps them expand their vocabulary and improve their communication skills. Moreover, children learn to solve problems independently and to occupy themselves. Playing alone or with other children in an environment conducive to play enables children to discover and practice these skills. In contrast, the consumption of digital media is mostly passive and does not encourage the same level of active involvement and development as free play. Although digital media can offer educational content, it is crucial that active play is not neglected. Encourage your child's learning process by viewing play as a valuable educational pathway and supporting their natural curiosity and joy of discovery.
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Promoting active experiences

Conscious media breaks, shared activities and the encouragement of active communication enrich children's development and foster family bonds. Likewise, shared meals without digital distractions positively impact family cohesion.
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Engaging activities together enhances your child's development and strengthens your bond with them.

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Promoting family life

If children have a TV, computer or tablet in their room from a young age, they often spend a lot of time in front of the screen. This presents parents with the challenge of providing appropriate guidance in the selection of content, especially due to the physical distance. Even shared moments such as solving a puzzle or reading a story often take a back seat because the TV in the living room draws attention to itself. As a result, valuable opportunities for personal interaction and shared activities, such as playing a board game or going for a walk in the fresh air, are less frequent or do not occur at all. Screen-free mealtimes provide a good opportunity to encourage conversations and encourage children to share their daily experiences. Regular breaks for shared activities such as a game of dice or a visit to the playground support children's cognitive and physical development as well as family bonding. Providing creative play materials such as building blocks, painting tools or a dressing-up box stimulates children's imagination and creativity and promotes active engagement instead of passive media consumption. Ultimately, it is up to the parents to actively enrich family life and promote the comprehensive development of their children by consciously taking media breaks.
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Shared meals without digital distractions enhance family life.

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Suggestions for handling digital media

Gain insights and suggestions for responsible use of digital media with preschool children. To support your child in the best possible way, appropriate screen time and open discussions about the use of digital media are beneficial.
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Screen time rules
Set clear rules for the use of digital media together with your child. Times without screens promote your child's physical activity and creativity and are important for their relaxation.
Set an example
Children learn a lot through observation. Show a balanced relationship between digital media consumption and other activities in your daily life.
Positive feedback
Praise your child for adhering to the agreed screen time and for putting devices away without being asked or engaging in discussions once screen time is over.
Content selection
Ensure that the media content is suitable for your child's age. This prevents your child from being overwhelmed when processing the content.
Adjusting the rules
Consider that your child is developing and their needs change over time. Therefore, adjust the rules for media use accordingly.
Screen-free meals
Use meal times without digital distractions to talk about the day's experiences. This promotes family cohesion and shows your child that you are interested in their everyday life.
Media devices outside the children's room
Place the television and computer in a room where you regularly spend time. This keeps your children's media consumption manageable and easier to control. This is sensible not only during preschool age but also recommended throughout elementary school.
Open conversations
Talk openly with your child about the use of digital media. Work together to determine when its use is sensible and which contents are beneficial. Express your views and concerns. This promotes an understanding of the rules and openly addresses your worries.
Internet safety
Teach your child that there are specific rules for using the internet. Emphasize the importance of using the internet only under your supervision and keeping personal information private. Explain to your child that they should only visit websites that you have selected together. Start conversations about internet safety early to foster an awareness of responsible behavior.
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Media consumption does not replace personal experiences and individual actions for child development.

Experiencing everyday life

For their general development, children need active opportunities every day to engage with the real world, experience self-determined activities and communicate with other people. Conscious and responsible use of digital media at preschool age is particularly recommended. Children are often guided by role models and unconsciously adopt the habits of adults, including their media behavior. Support your child's development by exploring their living environment together and talking about everyday experiences or topics that interest them. Try to ensure a balanced approach to digital media and inform yourself about the content your child consumes to avoid overwhelming them. Digital content that encourages children to think, react or act creatively is more beneficial than passive content. Times of shared media use allow parents and children to play an interactive game together or enjoy a movie night with snacks and talk about it. These shared experiences are an opportunity for parents to actively guide their children's media consumption and steer it in a positive direction. It is also important to provide children with sufficient opportunities for physical activity to reduce stress and promote healthy physical development.
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